I Don’t Want to Be Pregnant. Is Abortion My Only Option?

If you’re pregnant, abortion is the only option that terminates your pregnancy. Because it is a permanent choice, it’s best to make this decision with time and accurate information.

Parenting and adoption are your other two options. These choices allow you to continue your pregnancy while you explore resources and take the time necessary to prepare for your decision. 

This article will highlight the essentials you need to know about parenting and adoption—and the critical steps you need to take before making any pregnancy decision. 

Looking for a safe space to ask questions and learn more? Contact Woman to Woman Health Center today to schedule a no-cost, confidential appointment in a judgment-free zone to discuss this important life decision. 

Is Parenting Right for Me?

Parenting might feel like an impossible option right now, given your current circumstances. However, it’s important to keep in mind that circumstances change. By taking small steps in the right direction, you can parent while also working toward your goals. 

If you’re wondering whether parenting is the right choice for you, ask yourself this: Do I want to parent? If the answer is yes (even if you’d rather parent someday instead of now), you owe it to yourself to fully explore this option. Many resources are available to support you in this choice.

Is Adoption Right for Me? 

If you’ve decided that parenting isn’t right for you right now, adoption is another option. Adoption allows you to give your pregnancy a future by placing your child in a loving, stable home. 

Adoption is centered on an adoption plan, which gives you control over what you want to happen. There is much misinformation about adoption, and it is often confused with the foster care system. They are two very different scenarios. There are three different types of adoption plans: 

Closed Adoption: Closed adoptions keep the biological mother’s information completely anonymous with legally sealed identification documentation. With closed adoptions your confidentiality is secure.

Semi-Open Adoption: This option gives you the opportunity to communicate with the child and the adoptive family through a third-party. With semi-open adoptions, your identifying information is protected. 

Open Adoption: Open adoption allows for completely open communication between you, the child, and the adoptive family. Some women prefer open adoption because it allows them to develop a relationship with the adoptive family and child.

Next Steps

Before making any pregnancy decision, it’s critical to get an ultrasound. This simple scan will give you the details you need to know about your pregnancy to stay safe. 

At Woman to Woman Health Center, we offer no-cost, limited ultrasounds and a safe space to ask questions. 

Don’t delay. Contact us today to learn about all the ways we’re here to help. Because you’re worth it.